Any behavior that pressures, manipulates, or forces someone to engage in something sexually that they don't want to do.
Sexual Abuse
You have the right to set your boundaries and to have them respected no matter what has happened in the past or what the boundaries are of other people around you.
Red Flags for Sexual Abuse
Not all sexual abuse is physically violent.
Any behavior impacting a person’s ability to control their sexual activity or the circumstances of the sexual activity is considered sexual abuse. This includes behavior attempting to control use of contraceptives and birth control.
Most people know their assailants.
No type of relationship or prior relationship excuses sexual abuse.
People of all genders and sexualities can be impacted by sexual abuse.
Freezing during sexual assault is a common response. You do not have to have said “No” or to have fought back for it be considered sexual assault. Saying “No” is not the only way to communicate you do not consent to sexual activity.
It is your right to determined how and when you want to be touched. You’re allowed to change your mind, no matter if you have been okay with something previously.